
We are starting the last month of the year. As the year starts unwinding to it’s end, we tend to become more contemplative of our life and work. We take inventory. We weigh opportunities. We think about change.
Unfortunately, after many years of doing the same, making new resolutions for the new year, and failing at them, many give up on themselves. They accept one of several self-change myths:
- I’ve tried everything
- I don’t have enough will power
- People don’t really change
- I’m too busy to take time for this
Others don’t even think there is anything they need to change. They are in denial. If someone calls their attention to what they are doing wrong, they deny responsibility or justify the behavior. They want everybody else to change, not them. Continue reading »